London, Jan 16 : Queen of pop Madonna seems to have realized that she is domineering when it comes to her love life, as she is undergoing counseling to get rid of it.

Madonna's nasty divorce from ex-husband Guy Ritchie made her see her controlling side, and thus she is taking one-on-one sessions with a leading rabbi at the Kabbalah centre in New York, to overcome her problem.

"Madonna has been having a tough time with Kabbalah in the wake of her and Guy''s split," the Mirror quoted a source, as saying.

"Whenever she''s in New York, she''s taken to having intense private sessions with Rabbi Berg," the source added.

The sinegr, who is said to be very authoritative in her love life, has had a tough time in her relationships as she doesn't give other party the opportunity to grow with freedom.

"She feels that previous relationships have broken down because she always takes control, not allowing the other party to flourish and be themselves," a source said.

"Madonna''s a very strong woman and naturally tends to dominate and take control of a relationship. This is a pattern she is determined to alter in an effort to find the right person," the source added.

However, it is never too late incorporate good changes in life, thus Madonna is working hard to be less authoritative in relationships.

"As a result Madonna is working desperately hard to try and change herself from a control queen into someone who steps back. She is fighting her demons," the source said. (ANI)